IMPACT

   EveryONE has that "ONE" incident in their life that redefines them and turns their life around either upside down or downside up. Most of the times, I believe the changing factor is the product of a negative impact.

    I refuse to believe people are good/bad, they are just human .. some are sensible enough to think if their actions might cause harm/pain to the others .. some are just plain oblivious to others, and these kind unconscious impact some lives real hard. And if this ratio is not kept in check ....that will be the end of free-spirited people, Traits like innocence and unassuming nature would go extinct.

       When the life of free-spirited people is impacted, in particular, they get extra cautious, to protect themselves, they NUMB themselves to emotion, in the process they don't just stop being sad, they stop feeling happiness too.

       It doesn't matter if you don't help someone JUST doesn't pull them down for your reasons, try co-existing it's not so bad.

DON'T stop being selfish .. STOP being self-centered